ETM Discussion Series in Jerusalem

  I'm very excited to announce that EndTheMadness, in conjunction with Habe'er and Congregation Beit Yosef, has organized a two-part round table discussion series in Jerusalem. We have run these events several times in New York City with excellent reviews.

The first event will take place on Thursday, August 9, at 7:30 PM. The discussions will focus on Ethical Issues in Dating, including:

* Should one use a shadchan as an intermediary after a date?
* Is it ever appropriate to date more than one person at a time?
* When should one divulge sensitive personal information?
* Is it over okay to lie about one's age or one's past?
* When and in what fashion should genetic testing be performed?

The discussions will be held in small groups and will be facilitated by moderators. I can tell you that we have invited some very interesting people to moderate, but will leave it at that.

This event, as well as the second one described below, is open to observant singles between the ages of 22 and 38 (we ask that everyone respect this). Pizza will be served beginning at 7:30, and minyanim will be available with the shul for those who need them. The discussions will begin at approximately 8:15. The cost is only 25 shekels per person per event. Reservations are NOT required. There will be discussions in both English and Hebrew.

Congregation Beit Yosef is located at 17 Shimoni St., and the following buses stop near the shul: 19, 22, 24, 31, and 32. For those who need it, a map of the surrounding streets will be posted before long on the Habe'er web site at www.rovingwell.com.

The second event in the series will take place the following Thursday night, August 16, same time, place, and format. This discussion will focus on Double Standards in Dating, and will include the following topics:

* Are single men and women perceived / treated differently?
* Is it really true that men have an easier time getting set up?
* Are men less interested in women who are high-achievers?
* What should be the proper approach of a man or woman if they are interested in someone they meet socially?
* Is it true that there is a shortage of "great guys" in comparison to "great girls", or have expectations been corrupted?

We hope that all the single ETM supporters who see this will be able to attend one or both of these fine events, and we ask those who can't make it to help spread the word by forwarding this message to those you know who might be interested in joining us.

Chananya