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I notice lately, especially with the younger girls usually 22, and under there is this "i want to do aliya or we're not compatible" excuse. This is the biggest madness & the most ludicrous thing going on as of late. These girls are very immature, and just not ready to get married, so they use this excuse as to why they don't want to get married & are afraid of commitment. They dont realize the most important thing to look for a partner is someone that will make a good husband, a good good father, sholom bayis & a good provider, not where you live. That is the most rediculous thing to focus on. The only very important thing about where you live is that you should be able to support your family based on it by the job you have & if you dont want to be so far away from your family. They are here living in NYC expecting to find a guy here that is willing to quit his job, his culture, language & family to move 8000 miles away from everything. I have to say this if a girl ever mentions anything about aliya and is very serious about it, being a condition as to whether she will go out with you just end it right there, because the girl is not serious. If they are really that serious let them move there & find a guy there.
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