EndTheMadness.org will not share your contact information with anyone, ever, no matter how much they offer to pay us. We will contact individuals by e-mail to verify their existence and intent to sign up. Your information will be used for no other purpose, nor will we spam you. That's just wrong.
If you feel it is necessary to obtain permission from a Rabbi or anyone else before signing this covenant (as opposed to just discussing it with them), please do not sign it. We desire only those whose minds are internal, not external.
If you believe that signing this covenant will impair your chances of finding a shidduch, please do not sign it. You are, perhaps unknowingly, part of the problem.
If whether or not you decide to sign the covenant depends on who has or has not signed before you, see above.
Please do not judge people by their willingness or lack thereof to sign the covenant.
If you disagree with minor nuances but agree with the essential messages, please do sign the covenant. This is a sensitive area, and there is room for variance of opinion. We need not all think exactly alike to join together in this holy effort.
If you are already married, please sign the covenant anyway (this it not a dating site, after all). Married people play a continued role in the dating world, and have a great ability to educate and influence.